Hello fellow readers of Radiating Sunshine! My name is Rhea
and I blog over at RheaEtcetera.com, a lifestyle blog on fashion, food, trips
& travels, and etc (hence the name) :). I am so excited when Alex invited
me to guest post in her blog and share a piece of me with her fellow readers!
It's so fun getting to know Alex through her posts and her
blog makes me miss college! I majored in English - spent my first two years in
community college then transferred to a university to complete my
Bachelor's. When I transferred, that was
my first time living in the dorms as well. It's been seven years for me since
college graduation... and while I do not have any more all nighters writing a
paper or reading for class, let me tell you that post college, it's a whole
different level of stress (getting a job, bills, and probably the most biggie -
student loans!) but the similar theme between college and post graduation is
that really, you earn with what level of effort you put into it - you reap what
you sow.
Prior to college, the advice I got from friends and family
were essentially the same theme: study hard, do well, get that degree, get a
job, move on to adulthood. Because I went into college thinking hard that I
have to focus on my studies and nothing else, I feel that missed out on a lot.
I wish someone gave me these advice as well.
Here are my top 3 tips to college students for a healthy and
balanced college life, based on my experience:
Okay...random first advice right? Let me tell you about my
first day of my junior college year when I first lived in the dorms at the
large university that I went to. My attire: college shirt, shorts, sneakers
(and I am not talking about a cutesy outfit... size a little too big and looked
like I hadn't thought through what I am wearing) and for a back pack... I had a
black laptop back pack that carried my 17 inch laptop plus my anthologies. Yup,
I have no idea what was I thinking purchasing a 17 inch laptop - clearly not
easily carried, not to mention that since I majored in English, all my books
were pretty much 8 inch anthologies per class.
I ended up not using my laptop in class - that was not my
study habit and I prefer writing notes in a notebook anyway. Plus, I looked
like an overnight camper instead of a college student.
Long and short of it:
Seriously, what you just need in class is a pen, notebook, your books, and an
eager mind to learn.
It was my first time living on my own away from my family
too that I didn't really know how to make my own food (kudos to Alex for her
recipe posts and making her own food! :) ). My diet consisted of pizza,
burgers, fries, and anything fried. Whatever was easy to purchase with my tight
schedule of literally a 10 page paper due every week, plus I was working 3 days
a week at our local newspaper to pay my bills.
I think a lot of college students go in to it thinking they
have no way around weight gain in college. I definitely had my reasons why I
hadn't prioritized my health, but if I could go back, I would have learned
about proper diet. After college, when I prioritized healthy eating, I learned
that it was not really the amount of papers I had to write for school that was
truly causing me to feel so tired and exhausted. All the bad oil from my diet
was the culprit. It took me a few years post college to lose all the excess
weight and feel healthy. In my current career, I have days when I have to work
10-11 hour days consecutively (can be compared to a typical college day - at
least from my life in college), but because I've been eating healthier, I do
not feel as tired.
Long and short of it:
eat a balanced diet. Veggies, fruits, and a healthy balanced of protein and
good carbs are your best friends especially when stressed. Also, exercising is
a wonderful stress reliever!
Admittedly, even after college - sometimes I have to keep
reminding myself this. Like I mentioned, post college is a whole different
level of stress, especially depending on the career you fall into. Now working
in marketing, I have seasons in the year when I have so much deadlines that
overtime hours are inevitable. Sometimes I do not take breaks just to get work
done. Other days I remember that I need to step back and take a breather.
When I was in college, I never had that realization that
it's important to take a break. I kept up a part time job with a full load of
16 to 18 units a semester. I had a paper due every week. I was friends with my
roommate but it was so rare hanging out with her because of the amount of
school work I had to do. Because I was too focused on getting great grades and
completing my degree, I missed out on joining clubs at school. Missed out on
discovering the town my college was in because I was locked up in my dorm room
or the library. Missed out on making other new friends.
Long and short of it:
live a balanced life. Life isn't just about responsibilities alone - looking
back now, I could have spent time studying in the beach, in the local park.
Study groups and group discussions while walking around the park or even
hiking. There are ways to bring the fun into work!
College is such an AMAZING time to discover yourself, your
potential, new friends, and new interests. It definitely is the time to prepare
for adulthood, but as what you will learn in adulthood/career life - the most
important thing is living a healthy and balanced life. Do well, strive hard,
squeeze in some fun and relaxation, and enjoy every minute of it all! :)
If you'd like to check out the interests I've discovered
post college, please come visit me over at RheaEtcetera.com. Thank you fellow readers for your time, and thank you Alex
for this opportunity! :)
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Alright, friends I don't know about you but I pretty much loved everything that Rhea said! Thanks for guest posting and I hope you all have a fabulous weekend. I'm blogging over at Rhea's blog today so make sure you go check out her cute page!
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